How to Overcome the Fear of New Beginnings

Everything about our lives is constantly changing, and at an ever-faster pace. With each year that passes, there are more people, choices and events to process and find a way to categorize in our experience, relative to everything that came before.

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Places, jobs, and of course relationships, shape and shift our perceptions and experiences, about ourselves, others and life itself.  We become comfortable with our surroundings and circumstances, forgetting that life was ever different before. It was this way

But there’s never a guarantee that our circumstances aren’t going to radically morph tomorrow, into something completely different – perhaps even something we’re not exactly crazy about at first! That’s why change can be so scary. But, as the saying goes, “Change is the only constant in life.”

Not being able to rely on the very things that make us feel grounded, secure and content creates a sense of being out-of-control, helpless and small. How can we get back some sense of power over our own existence?

We can shift our mindset and learn to be more adaptable to change. In so doing, we inevitably discover a whole new realm of appealing opportunities. Here are a few ways to overcome the fear of change that new beginnings bring up:

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What is a Calling In “The One” Coach?

When people recognize and begin to embody their deepest, truest relationship dreams, their whole experience of their life shifts to a more positive place. They release the stranglehold that fear has had on them, embrace the unique gifts they have to offer another, and choose to have love in their lives – on their terms for the first time. Witnessing someone learning to live in this new way, and the happiness it brings them, is truly a magical thing to watch.

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I am privileged to get to watch these personal transformations because I am a Calling In “The One” relationship coach. And while I’d love to think I have a gift for coaching people who are yearning to have deep, sustainable love in their lives, I have to give credit where credit is due. My success rate as a coach in helping clients make these shifts has a LOT to do with the methods and skills I am able to teach them.

These are methods and skills that anyone who wants to bring love into their lives can learn, and I teach them in my practice because they made such a huge difference in MY life. When I was in a very miserable, dark place, feeling VERY unloved and unlovable, they lifted me up and gave me the ability to bring love into my life consistently.

But enough about me – maybe  you’re wondering, “What exactly IS a Calling In ‘The One’ coach?” I’m glad you asked!

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